Unlock Your Goals with Accountability
Over the years, I’ve witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice – “When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so they can support you.” In my experience, that could have worked better – especially on long-term goals. The reason is that nobody […]
Steps to Getting What You Want — and Keeping It.
Creating a difference in your life is a non-stop process that requires simple actions to help you get what you want. And it is, after all, about getting what you want and keeping what you love. You’ll always go through these steps: 1) Decide. Everything begins with your decision to head off in a new […]
Clear Your Clutter, Clear Your Mind
I’ve noticed in my life that humans are hoarders when it comes to keeping stuff that works and doesn’t. They keep hanging on; their life depends on it. Now, before I go on, I think there are two situations at play here: 1) Hanging on to what has worked well but needs to go so […]
10 Daily Rules for a Happier You
Every day, we all jump into the craziness of life with little thought to the basic rules we use to run our day. Here are a few of mine. You can borrow them if you would like: 1) Do what makes your heart sing. You’ll always feel better when you are dancing down your path. […]
The Gift of Making a Decision
While that way of thinking may seem out of touch today, it’s not. It happens daily for millions of people worldwide, and it can happen to you, too.
All You Need is ONE Goal
I didn’t think this way for much of my life, but one day, I accepted that no matter what I was chasing, it was the “who I would become in my life and how do I get there” thoughts constantly rolling around in my head.
Why Slow is Fast and Fast is Slow.
It happened right before the Daytona Speedway and got me thinking about the advice I give my clients about slowing down. It goes like this –
Expectations in Love And Everything
When I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way – at least not right away. If life has taught me anything, almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be […]
Exploring Your Possibilities
What do I want to be when I grow up? The first time you ask yourself that question is when you are very young – if you ever asked it at all. Frankly, somebody else usually asks you, and you probably don’t have an answer, so you just take off running with this thing called […]
Gift of a Wonderful Life
Wouldn’t it be great if you received the gift of a wonderful life this year? What if you could have lots of free time, less stress, more money, and great relationships? In my years of coaching folks all over the world, I’ve learned a few things about lifestyle design: 1) It all begins when you […]