Better Relationships. Better Life.

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The quality of your life is a direct result of your relationships.  Tony Robbins said that.

Whether it’s a personal, professional, or business relationship.  There are three ways to play the relationship game.  There is only one way to win.

1)  All relationships begin with two independent individuals.  If you remain independent, you will never connect.

2) Some relationships become co-dependent.  Developing this kind of relationship means losing individuality.  Isn’t that what attracted you in the first place?

3) The correct way is to merge your skills, passions, and individuality.  That creates an interdependent relationship.

The strength of an individual.  The power of a team.  It doesn’t get any better than that.

Essential Life Goals

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Over the years most folks have concluded that setting goals are the beginning of all success.  However, too many goals can also stop you in your tracks.

Huh?

The experience of working toward essential life goals will always make you happier.  Too many goals will distract you from your real purpose.

Most successful folks I know have three to five “important” goals at any time.  Keeping it simple allows you to focus on what’s important with little to no effort.  Anything more is nothing more than a someday/maybe list.

Decide what’s important, set the goal, and commit to working toward achieving them on a daily basis. You can always set more goals later.

Give Up What You Are NOT

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Are you striving for something different and confused about where to begin?

I have a client who, after years of poor eating habits, had become over 100 pounds overweight.  She decided to get healthy.  She also had no idea how.

My advice was simple.

If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are – just give up what you are NOT.

In her case, she knew lousy food because she had been eating it for years.  She gave it up.

She didn’t have time to go to the gym.  She gave up what was stopping her.

Too many activities were stealing the time she needed to heal herself.  She gave them up.

If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are – just give up what you are NOT.

Building Your Bridge to Change

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Not a day goes by that I don’t hear about one of my clients building a bridge to a new life.

They are following a simple truth.

If you want to change your life; you must accept that there is a gap between where you are, and where you want to go.

Before you can have new, you must build a solid foundation to support your current life.  There’s no running from reality.  No quitting your job.  No ditching your lease.

You also must build a solid foundation for your future.  Learning, saving, planning, acting.

As you establish foundations, you will build confidence, skill, and resources.

Keep what you have until your new life begins to appear.

You’ll know when it’s time to leap.