Procrastination is the intentional and systematic postponement of an important task you should be doing.  Is that what you are doing? Even if you are putting things off, it’s possible that you are not procrastinating.  Is it possible that you might be forcing yourself to do something that you don’t want to do anyway? Yes,…

Today you are going to have opportunities to communicate.  Written or spoken.  In email, in person, on the phone.  Here’s how to create connecting conversation every time: 1) Meet folks where they are. Pay attention to how their day is going.  Step into their NOW. 2) Doing that is as simple as establishing something in…

Getting what you want in life begins as an idea that bubbles up from the inside.  It becomes reality others recognize your passion and offer help. Here’s how it works: 1) Forget the “What” and “How” of your dreams.  Those will take care of themselves. 2) Focus on “Why” you want change in your life.…

How much is good enough? I received an email from an MTMer who changed careers to become a Surgical Assistant at an age when most folks are thinking about retirement. Mike, shared a useful saying he’s heard many times in the operating room. ”The evil of good-enough is better.” Once you’ve accomplished your goal, stop…

It’s a new week. 1) Do your homework. 2) Resolve to take massive imperfect action and make progress. 3) Celebrate your results. The coming week will never happen again. Make the best of it. Work hard. Defend what you’ve built. Plan for a party next weekend!

It’s been a strange weekend. I get it.  I watch television too. Left.  Right.  Middle.  Angry.  Sad.  Numb. Many folks freaking out.  I want to make lemonade out of lemons.  We’re you engrossed in every minute or did you ignore everything?  Personally – My weekend was normal. I spent Saturday morning at a Family Days…

Not a day goes by without someone asking how to get what they want. I almost always say, “It’s all about return on investment.” After all, it would be a shame to work hard toward your goals and end up with less than you started – right? That’s why you should run your life like…

It’s amazing how many people say they want to be their true selves yet are waiting for permission to begin. Here’s the truth: 1)  You are already yourself.  If you want something different – do it. 2)  Nobody is going to give you permission.  They are too busy waiting for it themselves. 3)  Everything changes…

How much better would your day be if you always knew what surprises were lurking around the corner? Why we can’t predict everything, we can prepare for most things using a “How Do I Feel Strategy Session.” 1)  Once a month, take a few minutes and review every possible interaction.  Jobs.  Trips.  Family events.  Everything.…

Creating a difference in your life requires a few simple actions.   It’s all about getting what you want and keeping what you love. 1) Decide:  Everything begins with a decision to transform. 2)  Define: Aimless wondering toward a dream is no fun.  Defining your path will get you there quickly. 3)  Deploy:  Putting your…