John Lennon was famous for saying, “Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.” Over the years, I’ve found that folks tend to do what serves them best – at the moment. One thing I know for sure. Keeping yourself busy with day-to-day is a sure-fire way to make sure dreams stay…

Are you the kind of person who is always running around putting out fires – fires you set?  I think it is time that we take away your matches and lighter fluid. Here are a few things to think about: 1) If your life is non-stop drama, stress, and craziness, there is a chance that…

Everybody has dreams. Daydreams, dreams while you sleep, and dreams of what you wish for the future. I’ve always believed that dreams are goals you have nurtured to become real in your life. But how do you know if the voice speaking to your heart will lead you in the right direction? I was reading…

As we begin a new year and decade, I thought I would give a little motivational tough love. Before I get going – No matter what you desire in 2020, remember that life and business are about solving problems. The bigger your dreams, the bigger your problems. If you want what nobody else has, you…

Do you have too many choices in your life?  In 2005, Barry Schwartz wrote The Paradox of Choice. It challenged the traditional thinking that said, the way to maximum freedom is to maximize choice.  Too many choices are not necessarily a good thing. They can create paralysis. Not to mention, no matter what you choose,…

Have you ever found yourself blissfully working for hours while time flies?  You are doing what makes your heart sing! Some folks say, “Do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life.”  That’s not true.  You’ll work harder than you ever have.  You’ll love every minute of it.  Your rewards will…

What’s the most exciting and scary thing you can do in life? Deciding to change everything and turn your dreams into reality will get your attention. What if you believe in your goal but lack the confidence to achieve your goal? Your day-to-day actions are a result of your Inner Guiding Values. They are the…

It’s the time of year when the world begins to believe. Children always believe, but the power to believe lies within you too. Believing in yourself begins with basics: 1) Practice self-care. Building belief starts with you. When you spend time improving your life, you will open more doors. 2) Seek to expand. The larger…

Do you have too many options that you are having a difficult time choosing? There is a concept called “Opportunity Cost,” which some consider a fancy word for “trade-off.” In other words, every time you make a choice, there is a trade-off to consider. Another way is to change how you view potential opportunities with…

What if your life had no limitations and no consequences? What if you could do anything that you wanted without anything holding you back? Here’s the truth. Personal limitations and consequences are useful. Think of them as guard rails alongside a curvy mountain road. They keep you safe while you are on your journey. What…