Are you the kind of person who is fearful of change? If that’s the case, you are not alone. Since humans are hard-wired for continuous transition and growth – it doesn’t make much sense.
What’s happening here?
Yes, you are seeking a better life. This life-long effort is to strengthen your foundation. The same on that has supported you since we were born. Your desire to change conflicts with your desire to maintain what you have.
What’s the fix?
As you transition to different stages of life your foundation will feel strain. It will need fortification and updating to match your current desires. If not, it will crumble, you will feel unsteady, and you will back into your comfort zone.